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Oh...crystal-ball...

October 8th 2007 08:50
John William Waterhouse Crystal Ball
John William Waterhouse, Crystal Ball - Wikimedia Commons

Good dates have been had. Great deep and meaningful conversations have happened.
The physical attraction heats up well each time, and the strong heart and mind connections are immense. Is that enough to tell you that s/he is the one?

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Perhaps a call needs to be placed to the psychic hotline. Maybe a gaze into the good ol’ crystal-ball may do. Or Tarot cards – it is said to be able to tell much.

What else can be done if you just need to know for sure?

Asking an *experienced* friend could help, otherwise mum always knows…? Perhaps seeking a relationship counselor.

If all these avenues have to be effected, and you are still not quite sure…surely s/he is not the one? Some…if not most people have said (time and time again), “you will know when you know”. You may be sick and tired of hearing it…but I think it is true. Who else but yourself will know – open your heart, trust your instincts, and…you’ll know...

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How true is “you will know when you know”…?







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Comment by katyzzz

October 8th 2007 09:25
I just love that crystal ball and the girl and the dress, wow , what a colour, love it, love it, love it.

katyzzz...We've a Crystal, here now.

Comment by Mrs M

October 8th 2007 10:11
Just like going into labour, you just know...there ain't no feeling like it and it is difficult to describe.

Love & stuff
Mrs M

Comment by Techno

October 8th 2007 11:58
So where's Crystal? Oh, you mean that one, bit old fashioned for me.

Techno

Comment by Michaelie

October 8th 2007 14:18
I always rely on the wisdom of a Magic Eight Ball instead. You just shake it until you get the answer you want. It's only sensible.

Michaelie

Comment by Always Eighteen

October 8th 2007 14:46
Hey hey Lara,

Dammit I wanted the first comment. Oh well, there's always next time.

Great entry. Have you ever tried a psychic?


I guess I'm too young to have an answer to your question, as I haven't yet felt that "you'll know when you'll know" feeling.

Comment by Louie

October 8th 2007 23:46
Crystals always know, they sort out the noise from your true feelings, take you to a quiet place......sometimes you know but you don't want it to be that person because they arent what you expected, imagined or even wanted...but it is what it is....an unstoppable force

Comment by Lilla

October 9th 2007 00:51
Lara,

I'm also loving that picture and like her, I'm old fashioned... I' still believe plucking petals from a flower is the only way to tell these things...um... accurately.

Comment by Aziza Ibrahim

October 9th 2007 03:52
Do we ever really know???? People could be married 50 years and then start questioning whether or not they did know......

Comment by Mr Nice Guy

October 9th 2007 08:03
I didn't know until I stopped asking myself. Then the answer was clear. Clear as crystal.

MNG

Comment by Lara M

October 9th 2007 08:28
There's something mysterious...almost magical about that image isn't it, katyzzz? I like it too...




<LOL> Love your response, Mrs M! It is *indecipherable*...and an almost magical feeling...




Oh, Techno...aren't u curious about what's under all that?...




Hah! The 'Magic Eight Ball'...good one, Michaelie

Comment by Lara M

October 9th 2007 08:37
Yea, Dean...I'll ESP u the next time...
Ooooh...please let me know when u've felt that feeling, it's extraordinary...




.....sometimes you know but you don't want it to be that person because they arent what you expected, imagined or even wanted...but it is what it is....an unstoppable force
...great insight, Louie. ...or you *will* yourself to think it's the one when it's not/not quite yet...




'Plucking petals'! That's a gem, Lilla <giggle...>




I think it is possible to know, Aziza. Can't quite describe it, but I'm quite sure it can...
Oh, I'm not much help am I?!




I didn't know until I stopped asking myself. Then the answer was clear. Clear as crystal.
...I think you've got it, MNG! That's it, everyone...the answer...


Comment by Ash

October 9th 2007 08:50
Hey Lara

I`m not sure on this one.... I wonder if two people will ever love each other equally or if one will always love the other one more. In the beginning they may seem like 'the one' but then as times moves on and your love grows it may grow differently, not to say that you love the other person any less but just in a different way.

So if you just know then how do you just know that that is how you will feel in, say ten years down the line.

Don`t worry I just confused myself too....

A very interesting question to ponder on!

Ash

Comment by Lara M

October 9th 2007 09:40
You've just opened Pandora's box, Ash <chuckle...>

Is it really a question of who loves more, or is it good enough that they both love each other? I think you either love or you don't...not sure if we can tag a percentage/amount to it...

My friend told her husband that she doesn't believe that married people (or otherwise) love just one person in their lifetime, and (like u said), as circumstances change, the love may grow a different way too (and perhaps to a different person). Needless to say, he was *distraught* that she (the love of his life whom he wooed from oceans away) could even think.

We then talked about it (all 3-5 of us!) -- we came to the conclusion that we should probably live in the moment...and if it feels right now, we should embrace it and soak it all up. However, if we had to question it again (and again...you know that endless debate we have with ourselves..)...then it's probably not it...(even from a couple of years)...

I think I've just confused myself too...!

I think we need some experienced (perhaps married) people to share their insights with us...

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