Lara MOh...crystal-ball...
October 8th 2007 08:50
Good dates have been had. Great deep and meaningful conversations have happened.
The physical attraction heats up well each time, and the strong heart and mind connections are immense. Is that enough to tell you that s/he is the one?
Perhaps a call needs to be placed to the psychic hotline. Maybe a gaze into the good ol’ crystal-ball may do. Or Tarot cards – it is said to be able to tell much.
What else can be done if you just need to know for sure?
Asking an *experienced* friend could help, otherwise mum always knows…? Perhaps seeking a relationship counselor.
If all these avenues have to be effected, and you are still not quite sure…surely s/he is not the one? Some…if not most people have said (time and time again), “you will know when you know”. You may be sick and tired of hearing it…but I think it is true. Who else but yourself will know – open your heart, trust your instincts, and…you’ll know...
How true is “you will know when you know”…?
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Comment by katyzzz
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katyzzz...We've a Crystal, here now.
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Dammit I wanted the first comment. Oh well, there's always next time.
Great entry. Have you ever tried a psychic?
I guess I'm too young to have an answer to your question, as I haven't yet felt that "you'll know when you'll know" feeling.
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I'm also loving that picture and like her, I'm old fashioned... I' still believe plucking petals from a flower is the only way to tell these things...um... accurately.
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<LOL> Love your response, Mrs M! It is *indecipherable*...and an almost magical feeling...
Oh, Techno...aren't u curious about what's under all that?...
Hah! The 'Magic Eight Ball'...good one, Michaelie
Comment by Lara M
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Ooooh...please let me know when u've felt that feeling, it's extraordinary...
'Plucking petals'! That's a gem, Lilla
I think it is possible to know, Aziza. Can't quite describe it, but I'm quite sure it can...
Oh, I'm not much help am I?!
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I`m not sure on this one.... I wonder if two people will ever love each other equally or if one will always love the other one more. In the beginning they may seem like 'the one' but then as times moves on and your love grows it may grow differently, not to say that you love the other person any less but just in a different way.
So if you just know then how do you just know that that is how you will feel in, say ten years down the line.
Don`t worry I just confused myself too....
A very interesting question to ponder on!
Ash
Comment by Lara M
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Is it really a question of who loves more, or is it good enough that they both love each other? I think you either love or you don't...not sure if we can tag a percentage/amount to it...
My friend told her husband that she doesn't believe that married people (or otherwise) love just one person in their lifetime, and (like u said), as circumstances change, the love may grow a different way too (and perhaps to a different person). Needless to say, he was *distraught* that she (the love of his life whom he wooed from oceans away) could even think.
We then talked about it (all 3-5 of us!) -- we came to the conclusion that we should probably live in the moment...and if it feels right now, we should embrace it and soak it all up. However, if we had to question it again (and again...you know that endless debate we have with ourselves..)...then it's probably not it...(even from a couple of years)...
I think I've just confused myself too...!
I think we need some experienced (perhaps married) people to share their insights with us...