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Can Christmas Gifts Wreck Relationships?

December 6th 2009 01:28
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Just 19 days to go before the fanfare of gift giving and receiving begins!

Have you written a list and checked it twice? Do you know what you’re getting for whom?


Christmas gift giving has transgressed from a simple act of giving and receiving from the heart into a monstrosity of giving and receiving wants – courtesy of course from the commercial entities that constantly subliminally bombard us with fancy ads suggestions on what would make good gifts.

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Buying her the latest fragrance from Chanel or Gucci might put you into the good books. However, do make sure you get the appropriate scent. She might get mighty offended if you picked a *granny scent*…

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The latest and coolest gadgets for him might be exciting. The latest home tools however might have underlying messages? Does it mean you want him to do more chores around the house? The same could be said if she got kitchen/home tools – does it mean you want her to cook/bake more?...or worse, clean more!

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Before you embark on your shopping, I suggest you listen and pay attention to what s/he wants. Even if it was a beautiful Tiffany gift, it might not be right if it was the cheapest on the list… Go figure!

As for me…I’m just as happy if it was a home-cooked meal or an offer to clear my store-room/attic – or some other mundane chore ;- )

Merry Christmas! ...and it’s not about the gift…


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Comment by Michaelie

December 11th 2009 03:26
Tch, you have a pic of Ralph Lauren Blue there, was my signature scent, can't seem to find it anymore, so am looking for a new one (i'll pass on the details of the one I want, and someone will get it for me for Christmas!)

I have nearly finished my shopping - such an ordeal! Though it's so nice giving them all away on the day.

But you're right, it's not really about that, that's just part of the ritual, my favourite part of it is just having everyone come together to eat and drink and have fun.

Nice post Lara : )

Mich

Comment by Michaelie

December 11th 2009 03:28
Tch, you have a pic of Ralph Lauren Blue there, was my signature scent, can't seem to find it anymore, so am looking for a new one (i'll pass on the details of the one I want, and someone will get it for me for Christmas!)

I have nearly finished my shopping - such an ordeal! Though it's so nice giving them all away on the day.

But you're right, it's not really about that, that's just part of the ritual, my favourite part of it is just having everyone come together to eat and drink and have fun.

Nice post Lara : )

Mich

Comment by Michaelie

December 11th 2009 03:34
Tch, you have a pic of Ralph Lauren Blue there, was my signature scent, can't seem to find it anymore, so am looking for a new one (i'll pass on the details of the one I want, and someone will get it for me for Christmas!)

I have nearly finished my shopping - such an ordeal! Though it's so nice giving them all away on the day.

But you're right, it's not really about that, that's just part of the ritual, my favourite part of it is just having everyone come together to eat and drink and have fun.

Nice post Lara : )

Mich

Comment by Michaelie

December 11th 2009 03:38
Oops! Excessive commentary there from me!


Comment by Lara M

January 11th 2010 01:42
Thanks, Mich
Yea...get-togethers for good food and drinks are much nicer presents. Hope 2010 brings us more of those

Comment by katyzzz

February 7th 2010 07:11
Yes, especially if you forget to give one.

Comment by Lara M

February 7th 2010 07:43

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